Question: Can I convert to Judaism while my wife remains a Christian?
Dear Rabbi Lerner,
Will a conservative Rabbi convert a person who is married to a non-Jew? I wish to convert. My wife is supportive of my conversion, but does not wish to convert herself. Will a conservative Rabbi be willing to convert me? I also have a question regarding studying for the Rabbinate. After converting, could I become a rabbi or would my intermarriage be an obstacle?
Thanks, Michael
Answer: Dear Michael,
First of all, converting someone to Judaism who is currently married - common-law or legally - is problematic. In essence we create a dual-faith family, even if the spouse is an agnostic or atheist. Some Conservative Rabbis will do so and others will choose not to do so.
Reach out and speak with your local Rabbi and determine what is their opinion and practice. In addition, you can speak with the Rabbi about all of your questions concerning conversion.
Secondly, regarding Jews by Choice becoming Rabbis - no problem. Assuming that one does choose to be a Jew and it is followed by the education appropriate for a Rabbi (minimally a BA/BS, high educational marks and skills, and approximately 6-7 more years of uniquely Jewish education), one can then be ordained.
Best wishes,
Rabbi Dov
