1. Home
  2. Religion & Spirituality
  3. Judaism
Ask Rabbi Lerner
Convert Lacks Support
  Ask the Rabbi Pages
• Ask Rabbi Lerner Home
• 
A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P R S T U V W Y Z

  Related Resources
• Introduction to Judaism
• Jewish Holidays
• Jewish Lifecycle Events
• Jewish How To Pages

Question

I'm 21 years old, and from Uruguay. After several years of deep thought, I'm converting to Judaism. There are just a few Jewish families around; my family and most of the country is Catholic. I've got two questions: 1. How can I make my society understand I'm not a freak for wanting to become a Jew? 2. Will the Orthodox Jewish families here really accept me, or will I always be considered an outsider as a convert?

Answer

First of all, thank you for writing. I've tried to gather some resources for converts for you.

Secondly, the most important support you need is apparently already being given to you - the local synagogue and the local Jewish communtiy.

Thirdly, if you wish to speak with a Conservative Rabbi, and in Spanish, contact the Seminario Latino Latinoamericano, Jose Hermandez 1750, 1426 Buenos Aires, Argentina, 54-11 -4783-2009 and by email srlatino@satlink.

You may indeed have some reaction from the Orthodox in the community if the Conservative Movement officiates at your conversion, but ultimately that is something to discuss with your sponsoring Rabbi or with several different Rabbis to make a more informed choice of which way to proceed.

Lastly, no one who is sincerely Jewish would discriminate against you in any way. In fact, Jewish law forbids ever reminding a Jew-by-choice in any way, by word or deed, that they once were not Jewish.

I want to wish you good luck in your spiritual searching and may you find fulfillment.

Best Wishes,

Rabbi Barry Dov Lerner
Foundation for Family Education (FFFE)

More Answers from Rabbi Lerner

 

Subscribe to the Newsletter
Name
Email





Explore Judaism
About.com Special Features

Ten common misconceptions about Islam debunked. More >

Use these prayers to inspire and inform your own conversations with God. More >

  1. Home
  2. Religion & Spirituality
  3. Judaism

©2009 About.com, a part of The New York Times Company.

All rights reserved.